>>7790151Broke up with a girl I'd dated for almost two years recently because she was becoming codependent.
Not controlling, just she was basing all of her well-being on me, and I'm a disaster.
I'm 26, and I'd been single since high school before her, I just wanted to see if I was missing anything by living in my corner.
We're on good terms but I increasingly think the best thing would be for her to forget I exist.
Now I feel like I did a lot of damage to her and learned nothing except I should've stayed in my fucking corner.
I'll have a hard time forgetting the depth of feeling myself, you just don't get that shit alone.
Hell of a lot more stable though.