>>7263392>ex then tried to contact me / become someone so she can regret dumping youmy exact situation as of 2 weeks ago, heart was broken 4 months ago, I recall basically weeping as she ended it, after that I was so full of anger with myself for how much of a bitch I was about it, and how she thought she could get somebody better pissed me off. Hit the gym hard, got so much shit together in my life, new haircut, basically a complete destruction of my old self. I learned to love myself and made sure to document all of it on social media. Eventually she tried to re-add me, got the "I miss you so much" message, but I managed to resist responding at all.
If you get that fire inside you with just the right amount of hate for the person that abandoned you, you can do some amazing shit if you harness it. If you're going through hell, keep going etc
Though I would advise venting your emotions to a friend when the breakup is still raw if possible, nobody knows my story but me because I had nobody to listen, just kept it all inside, which is a horrible existence day by day