>>7810238>>7810317This is terrible advice given by people who presumably have never been in a (healthy) relationship.
It sounds like you guys might be through, OP. It's tough. I know. Search your heart for what you think the right course of action is. If you think it's salvageable and you want to try to save it, think hard about what you're going to say to her next.
But if she wants to move on, that's ok too. Sometimes there's nothing you can say to fix the situation, and you have to accept that.
Either way it shakes out, it's gonna be harrowing. Good luck, OP.