>>7994599fuck it some more advice
like i said
>don't burn bridges anywhere especially with family>lets say you're saving for a house or apartment theirs no shame living with parents while your doing it even in your 30's>instead of giving all your money that could go t a deposit on a house to your landlord just so you aren't under the thumb of your parentsso when you were 19 and told your dad you hated him for throwing out your plushies and never talking to him again or whatever stupid shit happened now you fucked the ability to grift of your parents and save mad cash for a nice place for yourself but instead you're living in your car and too prideful to go back to dad and say he was right
also you're hobby should be what defines you like (i dunno you're into snowboarding or downhill bike riding, dirt bikes or camping or fishing or some shit)
nothing wrong with being proud of your job but it shouldn't make up your whole identity
ok i promise the very last piece of advice is when you get home from work right down a quick summary of the day from start to finish
the reason i say is imagine if stacey says you did "x" to her and she's just making shit up because she's crazy you can whip you're diary and be like when stacey wasn't even in that day so how could i have done "x"
also the obvious one don't shit where you eat