>>7267860I'm in the same boat with you though, I don't like the way culture has gone with social media, especially with sex. In highschool I had a couple friends that were girls and I maintained a decent friendship with them, slept over at their house etc. I was a virgin and I hung out with dickheads who egged me on to fucked them. I was semi-popular in hs and a lot of girls liked me, I was literally just a faggot who didn't want to "get my heart broken." I wanted something valid, I wanted the sex to mean something and I wouldn't have minded spending the rest of my life with someone I met in hs. I always hated that someone who I had a crush on would be kinda whorish and attention seeking, following the sex-sells culture.
In all honesty, it depends on your upbringing as well, the majority of people come from middle class or low class families or cultures that really don't give a shit about sex, they throw themselves around like trash and they don't really care. To them, it's normal, and you look like an incel or a loser if you say otherwise. You're basically a faggot if you're not cool with Instagram culture.
Sex is great and all, "spread your love" etc. Like I get it. But for me sex truly is a sacred thing, I cannot get turned on by just fucking. I'm attractive, I've slept with about 15 women and I can say that I would have kept it down to one if I were able or had the chance to meet someone I truly clicked with on another level. I've had 3 relationships, am in the 3rd one, and I really can't find what I've been looking for.
But to each their own, unfortunately we live in this society. Just look for the better people with better standards, what more can you do.
