>>3658247>And you know exactly what I mean.Yes, but if the eventual good outweighs the current bad, you should go for it.
>thinking you can't love someone if you want to improve themNo, improving someone is an act of love for them - it's giving them a gift with amazing potential, their new upgraded selves.
A car enthusiast loves their hobby car, and works on it to improve it. Someone who loves their war miniature collection or their computer would do the same.
Loving someone does not mean letting them stagnate when you have a chance to make them better. That is an act of apathy and negligence. Do not neglect your partner. Help them become the best person they can be. That is love.
>A persons value shpuld not be determined by their fertility.Agreed. But even if it's not for fertility, training your partner to be good at whatever it is they should be doing still helps them - and it helps you, too, because you have a better partner.
>You are saying rape is okay.Yup
>It is never ever okay.It is when it trains the other person to be a better partner and a better person
>You're disgusting.You're close-minded and hateful.
>Child grooming is all about controlling someone.And then using that control to benefit them and improve them, while also cutting yourself some side benefits. Actually, the side benefits are still a benefit to the child because the more you love them, the more you're willing to work on improving them!
> If you want to control someone that much you can not possibly love them.I disagree completely. Rebuilding someone is the ultimate act of love for them, because it's the greatest service you could do for them, and the greatest gift you could give them.
>People like you need a lot of mental health help.You know you're not the first person to think that people who disagree with you need psychiatric help.
You're also not the first asshole to be wrong about it.
