>>2836084I said that before and I'll say that again: I think it's because quiet people are often attracted to loud ones and vice versa. Sure, from my experience some people love Asuka because they see themselves in her and that's also true for me but I can't help but love strong and assertive (but caring) women.
>>2836289Shinji is supposed to be an annoying loser. I absolutely hated his character as well when I first watched it but as I grew older it turned out that I'm a huge coward as well, and a very sensitive one to boot. Now this whole Shinji/Asuka situation is essentially a small beacon of hope that one day I'll find someone who'll complement my flaws. I have plenty of good points too, after all.