>>39751562Death is a part of life anon, if you hid from any relationship that could end in pain then you’d never leave your house. I lost my nephew a year ago to suicide, it was unbearably painful yes, I even ended up on a ward for three weeks. Know what I realized? It wasn’t his loss that made it so painful but my obsessing over it, focusing on the fact he was gone and not on everything we shared. Once I started instead focusing on things building snowmen together, playing pokemon cards even though I had no idea how, camping, his graduation, ect its fills me with happiness and not pain. A Ninetales too probably learns to live with loss as its nature makes it a regular part of its life. Sure its initially painful but I doubt it’d be such they’d find friendships and family not worthwhile even if it’d potentially outlive 20 generations of its own kids.
