>>55833608>Anyone that seems like they could be a decent friend? You could start from there, little by little.can't remember names, also not really, also I'm not a decent friend myself so it's pointless. i'll just drop friendships because i'm busy or tired or whatever other reason at the drop of a hat
>This is a bee line straight towards a burn-out, do you want thatit's just part of how my brain works, not gonna change now honestly. any time I've made any decision where I chose fun over schoolwork, like, it was maybe a bit of fun while it was stressful, and I didn't get anything further out of it (social stuff or otherwise)
>sex isn't the end goal and I commend you for realizing thatvirginity will still continue fueling depression and it'll only get worse and worse as I grow older
>If you feel like this because you don't actually like this person, then it's okayNo of course I like them, though also of course I don't really know them. She's attractive, looking to fuck, swiped on me, and has a shared interest. Normally I don't get all that pent up over dating apps baiting me with something I want but know I won't get, and I know not to get attached, but jesus, that's a lot of good shit to be forced to fumble and just watch as it disappears. and of course I have no idea how I fumbled nor how to improve.
>you'll have to let them know in some wayI know you said "in general, not just with this person" but do you think it's worth pursuing? like an exit survey, acknowledging it's fine if she doesn't want to chat further but asking what I did wrong? all that happened was she commented on a joke in my profile, I joked back and asked about her fav gen/mon, she shared and asked back, i commended her picks and gave my own, then last message is me asking what specific part of the fandom she's in. shouldn't have mentioned gen 9 i guess
>So, I know I'm a fuck head and a cuntwhat? no you're cool anon