>>57855408It's complicated because people are complicated. We're essentially at the very beginning of finding out how we work mentally and there's a lot of different schools of thought.
The two main approaches are
> try to find out what causes you to react a certain wayThis is your mainline speech therapy and such
>train the person to react differentlyThis is done heavily in coaching. Both have their value though the latter is faster and more result oriented.
What makes the whole thing more complicated is that things vary from therapist to therapist. It's recommended to keep shopping around until you find someone who clicks with you.