>>67159586This is a hard question because both sides have agendas.
In my opinion ot's a lot about knowing your audience: if you are a GFE obviously it will be selfdestruction (Mikoneko) but if you built an audience of normies (vshojo) you will probably be fine.
Ultimately as
>>67159775 says the problem lies within collabs itself: they are a debuff if your audience doesnt care for your partner and most people don't care for males
