>>25661110Maybe it's because your mind has time to prepare for a male collab when it's announced in advance. Then when it's an impromptu collab, your mind doesn't have time to prepare for it so it becomes jarring.
I myself don't mind male collabs either, as long as they are there to have fun as friends. If the female and male streamers start flirting, I'm fucking out of there quicker than you can say "cuckold".