>>70927239Stop whining and become attractive to women then (no need to be physically attractive. Even that midget from Austin Powers had a sex slave of girlfriend). Get some nice conversationalist skills, train up some charisma and spokesperson abilities, expose yourself to ridicule and survive, that way you'll slowly kill off anxiety and feel more natural about getting exposed. Lastly, get yourself a passion that controls your whole life. To gymbros it's gains. To plamo autists it's the newest train set. In simpler words, just focus on yourself more and let women aside. When women aren't your priority, it's exactly when they choose to come alongside you.
Ask your dad what's his story of how he met your mom and you'll see I'm right. He was probably busy doing something else important and mom just tagged along