>>11258876There is a difference between writing a significant body of literature about existentialism and living "reasonably", and writing "Real love is not the chemicals in your brain, it is MORE and you'd know that if the chemicals in your brain would tell you so".
If you seriously put any stock into your thoughts about this, better get ready to seriously write about it for a few decades. You know, like Sartre, and Kant, and Dostoevsky.
>You can't just toss it away and say "when you're older and wearier, you'll learn to accept and be happy with less"You can't and yet you're here after 15 relationships, so please tell me how you got over them enough to start a new one. You wouldn't start a new one without being over the previous ones, right?).
I cried for a hour on the way to work when I read that Coco graduated. My feelings about it were real, but so is the fact that everything in your life is going to move on
and so did her seiyuu by doing something different she likes to do. Imagine how fucking miserable everything would be if Tatsunokos never supported anyone else ever again, or if people like Mori had no one else to look up to.
>but that has less weight than you thinkYes, that's very important, but you should ask yourself who is measuring. That might make you realize that people have very different formative experiences in their lives and you can still make long-lasting and better ones even after losing your virginity.
>You just haveplenty of good things with life and the sobering realization that you'll always yearn for what you don't have. Look at the idiots in the splits complaining about their oshi not streaming the way they want them to, as if they were entitled to anything. Look at the unicorns and doxxfags who believe it's ok to lust after the seiyuu behind their oshi but shit on them if they are ever suspected of having seen a dick before. I project my ideals as well but I try to do it in a way that I will still keep moving forward regardless of how well they are met by people who don't owe me anything.
>Three,I don't know what your oshi is to you, but you're making it blatant that she could never measure up to your first, so me suggesting that she isn't romantically interested into you shouldn't even phase you. Cherish what you have while you still have it. If it's not good enough for you to be happy any other way than (with) the ***right*** one, you'll just never let yourself be happy with anyone.