>>30062599Honestly, isn't expecting this way worse than people seething?
I get people getting upset if you don't show up, but isn't it so much worse when no one expects you to show up either way?
At least for me, I hate disappointing people sometimes, but the worst I ever felt was back when I was a fuckup, and messed up, and the person I was trying to help just said that they had expected that anyways.