>>50412702Going /out/, joining a bdsm “munch” (basically a local meetup of kinky people but no sex during it, you can date after it though, some hold rope tying classes), online dating and hope for the best
Basically being social
There’s a lot of kinky older girls out there, a common one is fuzzy handcuffs you get at the mall as a gag gift but uh oh turns out she actually likes it but never knew it?
There used to be craigslist for that but it doesnt allow personal ads anymore
