>>75576171>she left Gura by herself and didn't even tell her family members not to post about the thing on instagram, which led to the location being found by doxxfags, something that Gura would have been (apparently correctly) worried about happeningyou are now going directly against the points you already acknowledged, like Mori talking with Gura about a hotel option
also, Mori did talk about her family members about opsec (it was brought up in earlier streams) and ultimately the instagram that was located was not even from her family, but a mention from one of the people at the party
so you're just... objectively wrong here
>someone who sticks to their responsibilities even if they're inconvenient to them at the time is admirablenot if it's hurting someone else in the process
and she had no reason to believe she was hurting someone once they talked it out, and the only statement regarding how it went we have is... hers. so it's not even Mori's word against anyone else, it's just Mori's word against your negative interpretation of her character, which just doesn't stand up to anything
>no my argument against it is that Mori's standards of 'making sure everyone was comfortable' are not good enough and in fact the right thing to do was not to try to make everyone comfortablewhich is your opinion to have, but I find it mortally better to find a way that accommodates more people at loss for yourself (which Mori was clearly intent on doing)
>the right thing to do would have been either to tell her sister to fuck off/say some variation of 'I have a VERY IMPORTANT stream I need to do for my job, and my coworker is not comfortable with crowds and is worried about her privacy - can you wait for a coupld of hours before throwing the party until we're done'this is also you working off incorrect/partial information since Mori was faced by a situation where a party was ongoing, in a way she did not initially agreed on, and her choices were insisting on "my way or the highway" or finding a compromise with everyone involved (which, once again, we have her word on attempting vs... nothing)
>not necessarily, the problem with that is she didn't tell her friend she had applied only after she had already got in - it's the fact she applied 'as a joke' KNOWING that her friend wanted the jobfirst one I might agree on to a degree, though you're omitting the fact that it was the friend in the first place that linked the application form to them. though you might once again working of partial information since you're obviously not a regular follower
second, her not seriously believing she'd get in (ie. applying "as a joke") did not impact the seriousness of her approach, or hard work put into pre- and post-debut preparation, and she's been proving her seriousness and dedication more and more every year
>you are ok with your oshi being a morally questionable person who hurts people sometimes - as long as it's well intentioned/for the right reasons - and as long as they get their character development later which makes it all ok afterwardsI'm okay with my oshi being human, making mistakes and trying to do better, which is not what you're trying to paint (ironically, after complaining about strawmen earlier). You are framing you as some kind of anime arc and going on a tirade of moralistic absolutism, but that's incredibly immature approach to humans in general, especially since you're getting angry on behalf of someone that didn't even shown any signs of being hurt in the first place.
and, rounding back to the initial point, my perspective continues to be rewarded since by the end of the day I experience that kindness and care firsthand, and even if it some day falters under the cynicism and mistakes (as it often does for people under constant scrutiny), I will remember that effort