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so ive had a crush on a freind for 7 years, ive helped them through several breakups. recently i started to grow feelings for them again. i helped her try to get over their breakup which she was dating him for 5 years. if she needed someone to talk to or some place to stay not to be bothered id let her stay at my appartment on the couch just to be able to talk/take a nap. recently she told me a list of reasons why we couldnt date and that what she was doing wasnt leading me on. she would talk to me a lot about problems she had or something that was bothering her, we would play some games together or just sit and talk to each other about whatever was going on that day. she then told me that she wouldnt be ready to date anyone for a long amount of time and ends up dating someone a week after she tells me this and says that "anon, this shouldnt be a timeframe thing". that made me feel pretty hurt considering when someone says they wont date someone for at least six months and then dates someone a week later and then proceeds to stop talking to me altogether except for like a few messages about how she wasnt leading me on. it hurts senpai