>>7654304>Fuck it anon i'm going for it. You should too.I did this before actually. I didn't put it in the OP, but I have tried to lay it all on the line because I fell for the
>you will regret not tryingmeme
It blew back in my face and I was not only rejected, but cut off from a friendship that I would have rather kept. I was impatient.
I realize now that these things don't have to be so high risk and that people literally walk into relationships not even trying.
Like you can just wait and once you find that person who likes you. Things will move quickly. Honestly chances are that if nothing has happened by now, then that is not the direction things are headed and you can't change that. Things CAN change, but it is incredibly hard to take actions into your own hands and change circumstances yourself with much success.
I also realized that there isn't just one person out there that I can like. I always got hung up on girls because I thought they were the perfect match and I would spend all of my energy on just one.
So with this girl in my lab I realize it's not meant to be as it stands. Nothing has happened. I just can't help my feelings of course.
>>7647118>>7654697People like these are right in saying not to just try to give up or turn away, but I do manage the expectation that this will ever amount to anything. It saves the heartache of being disappointed.
I guess I am already committed to this whether I like it or not. If I give up then I lessen the pain, but make certain my failure. If I continue to try, I risk a much greater pain, but nobody can call me coward. So as dumb as some of you think it is. I am going to keep building a relationship with this girl, talking with her and getting to know her. Whatever happens happens.
Thanks for the advice everyone..
