>>7819427Don't assume that she hates you or will hate you forever. I broke up with my first girlfriend under pretty terrible circumstances. She was illegally living with me in a house share, she had no job or friends after finishing uni, I was doing all I could to support her but she was rapidly becoming depressed as her visa was due to run out with no means of extension. I started getting stomach pains and thought it was just an ulcer from the stress. Happened to ask a doctor about it while she was getting checked for something else, turns out it was appendicitis, and I was rushed to hospital to get that sucker whipped out. She stayed with me at the hospital as long as she could and was there first thing in the morning after my surgery. I was in a lot of pain, even though it was keyhole surgery - couldn't shit for days, partly due to the codeine, partly due to cut up abdominal muscle. I left her to stay with my parents for a couple of weeks, in which time I just broke down, exhausted from supporting her and finally defeated by the appendicitis. I broke up with her over the phone, telling her to leave before I came back. She refused. I went back two weeks later and, amidst a lot of screaming and crying, she agreed to move out. I tried meeting up with her a few weeks later to see if we could still be friends (first break-up delusions), but it didn't go well.
