>>6697193I'm thinking about doing something similar.
A girl i'm pretty sure i love stuck me in friendzone about a year ago, which i expected when confessing to her, since she had a bf. In the meantime we spent some time together and she did flirt with me on occasion, but the line was clear.
Recently there was a huge drama with her bf, "lying since day one about doing nasty shit" level. She broke up with him and helped him over the problem he was hiding, and i helped her too, as best i could.
I didn't expect her to suddenly jump at me. But now that she talks about how she either wants to go back to him or go for the 'holiday romance' she had, basically saying those are the only possibilities... it hurts, really fucking bad. I'm sure it's not on purpose, she is anything but a sadist - she has good morals and sticks to them, more than most people.
I can't expect her to suddenly love me, as much as I would want. Hell, i can't expect anything.
So what I think I should do is to break contact with her. Reset the relationship, so to speak. I'll go work the fuck out and either get over her and become happy or gain the sort of body (and thus confdence) to get her interest. What I can't do is stay a "friend who's always there for her", since I'll just keep on being a miserable mother fucker. And from what i understand about psychology, being "always there" makes me undesireable. If you take something for granted, you don't assign much value to it, don't you?
What do you think? Someone should have a similar story...
(none of my wallpapers are sad now that i looked)