>>7929629been in a relationship for 12 years. it's been dull for years but she's my best friend. saw the cutest japanese girl yesterday at the grocery store and it was the first time in many years that a girl's looks stopped me in my tracks like that. she was on her phone minding her own business and gave no cues of being interested in talking to anyone so whatever. still, i feel kinda grateful to be reminded that i can feel that kinda thing at my age (i'm 41.. fit...no kids and people guess i'm 30 all the time).