>>7936975Yeah bud, we talked about it and my fiancée still wants to go through with it. Basically "so long as you don't leave me, and so long as our interactions with this person are temporary".
And I'd never leave her so I guess we're alright. I was just feeling guilty about feeling the urge to be flirty via text with this girl while in a serious relationship, but like most things, we talked through it when she got home from work yesterday and reached a solution together. She (my fiancee) is going to handle the planning part so I don't have to continue interacting with this person until the threesome, and we meet up on saturday of next week to bang one out & do some BDSM stuff, and then this girl is going to Washington so I'll probably never see her again. All good.
>>7937050And >>you.
Communication is the only thing that matters in a relationship. Open relationships and poly relationships make things harder and more complicated, yes, but understand that some people are mature enough to handle that.
You seem to be under the assumption we fuck other people constantly. We've done this maybe 7 times over 8 years. You seem to be thinking this is some kind of pornographic addiction, and it's not. Funnily enough, if anything it has made our relationship stronger because neither of us get jealous about dumb bullshit anymore. If you've ever been in a long term (and I mean really long term, 5+ year relationship) you know damn well that sex gets boring, and while you may still love the person, you think about other people from time to time. That's just the human condition. And we, as a couple, simply address that up front rather than repress it.
Also, whatever internet tough guy told you masturbation and sex rots your brain lied to you, little buddy. It, like anything, can be taken too far. But it's not innately harmful. People like you endlessly try nofap and other incel shit hoping it makes you happy, or manlier, or whatever else. And it never does.
