>>6240>Good grief why are you making such a big deal out of it?Because immature mindsets like yours piss me off. It's systematic of the victim mindset that's so prevalent in the western world, and that just sets off my autism right the fuck off
Your problem is you don't understand the mistake you made wasn't in "trusting her," it was in not making your boundaries clear. It's in blaming her for being "unfriendlike" when you should blame yourself for not making your wishes clear. Sure, maybe you and I consider it uncouth to fuck somebody with your pal in the same room, but some people do that kind of thing without a problem. Who am I to judge? The problem here is you had a problem and decided to not voice it, let her do what she wanted, and then get pissed at her for it
Even if you don't room with her for the rest of your life, it won't change the mistake you made, and that you'll continue to make if you don't snap out of it and stop throwing yourself a pity party; if you don't object to something, you are BY IMPLICATION (capslock because apparently it needs emphasis) permitting it. There are more levels of agreement than explicit verbal ones, Anon, and I sincerely hope you are not so autismal that you don't know that
