>>7894531I've learned a few things from my experiences, there were more relationships but I didn't include them because they were from when I was younger and nobody knew better, in the process of discovering love or I didn't care for as much.
1. A cheating partner is not your partner, simple as. She was yours at some point, maybe, but not anymore, therefore there's no point in crying, it wasn't going anywhere anyway, thank her instead for you have discovered with incredible proof that it didn't matter, move on.
2. I've yet to discover this idea of forgiving and continuing a relationship with someone who cheats us because love is so great but I don't think that's something I can see past as some may say.
3. This one is mostly about myself, I'm tired of the cock measuring contests between peers when chicks consider a mate, at least on the wide-view perspective, some individual interactions might not get into this category and of course would be actual love but they're rare, most of what we see is vanity, comparisons of social hierarchies, financial hierarchies and so on, actual logical interests before love.
4. Love is supposed to be have a positive effect in our lives, the lack of it doesn't necessarily have a negative effect inasmuch as we don't give it that power. Sure if you really want a partner, it's going to take over your life but you cannot rush relationships and love and most probably shouldn't as you might eventually be with someone you wouldn't want to have a family with, they can ruin your life in many ways. Respect the lack of it in your life and do whatever you do anyway, when it happens, it happens, but your life will still go on with whatever plans you make for yourself.
5. I don't know how the fuck to move on when her face and smile are haunting me on every other chick. Probably I didn't yet find the one who's able to erase that feeling?