>>59495432>>59495764>>59496403I'm working on two more, stay tuned!
>>59496450This is something I've talked with my partner about, but basically it comes down to, test the waters, try talking to me.
I'll never truly be mad enough to raise my voice and yell at, or hit the people I love, but I won't be immediately responsive.
If I barely respond, or my tone carries a lot of negativity, I'm sighing a lot, avoiding eye contact, etc, try again in like 20 minutes.
If you keep talking while I'm sounding like that, nothing will get better, send me a funny picture or crack a joke 20 mins later. If I respond better than I did prior, then try talking again, I'll likely respond better. If I'm still barely responsive, give it another 20 minutes, and continue this until I stop being a bitch and give a proper response.
No one stays upset forever, it's like trying to stir a pot that isn't ready. It's somewhat redundant and you're just making it take longer.
Everyone is different, but this is just my personal thing.
