>>3058434>A lot of radfems actually do have a problem with BDSM for exactly the reasons you describeI know, I was just surprised that a radfem didn't immediately see the nuances of a fetish focused on mimicking existing power structures.
>I enjoy being disciplined, spanked and scolded a lot, but I don't think that's just inherent to me being a woman. Completely agree. When I said that BDSM is about violence against women, I didn't mean women as a collective, I meant women who consented to getting beat. Obviously, BDSM in a sense challenges that by making what would ordinarily be an abusive relationship something where the woman has control over how she's treated, but spanking is still a form of violence, even if consensual. At the very least, I would imagine that a radfem would be critical of why so many women like to be treated roughly rather than blindly accepting that BDSM is feminist.
>>3058446No, there's plenty of women that don't want to be smacked around. Even if you're completely sure that somebody wants to be hit, you still need to get their consent.