>>2795202NTA, but I already typed this up and hopefully it helps some other dad out there. You should take her outside as much as possible and give her your full attention when you do (no phone unless for a picture). I used one of the baby carriers to strap her to my chest facing outwards when we went on the short hikes to the waterfalls down the gorge past crown point as soon as she could hold her head up. Did the same thing when we made food at home and tried to include her in everything. I also spelled out signs, words, or objects when we were out and I noticed it caught her attention. Another anon here said that having closed captions on the TV helped him read while he was growing up and I can confirm that it does. I made a habit of making sure she saw big scenic vistas and that we took time to play and have a picnic in the forest and it seems to have stuck. I also took her outside in the yard every day and would point out stuff like the moss on the trees, the insects, and explained how they are all connected and the cycles they go through. I used inaturalist to check out areas I planned to take us to and familiarized myself with the plants and critters we were likely to see. Spending quality time with her doing things you enjoy, fostering that bond, and making sure they're comfortable coming to you with any questions is the most important in my opinion. Those are the three things I'd search if nothing else. The second but hardest is a positive female role model.
Also consider getting out of the I-5 cancer corridor where it's the worst. Thankfully there are plenty of miserable wine aunts and cat ladies to point to and ask "does she really look happy?" And it looks like the zoom zooms have a large contingent who realize what fruit feminism bears and it's only going to become more apparent as they get older and still try to rock a dance floor with a cosmopolitan in hand and a phone to document the teary eyed joy and happiness in the other.
